Sexy or Slutty?

Miley Cyrus has a lot of people talking after her wild VMA performance last night!  It brings up a debate of where to draw the line between sexy and slutty.

Nowadays, stars have to compete for attention on a stage where everything has been done before.... from JeLo's low cut green dress at the 2000 Grammy's to Madonna and Britney's kiss at the VMA's in 2003 to Lady Gaga's meat dress at the 2010 MTV awards.

More and more, women in entertainment have been trying to out-slut each other to stand out.  Paris Hilton shot to tabloid fame when she flashed her crotch at parties and Kim Kardashian started her career with a sex tape.  So, obviously, it can capture attention.  But is that the kind of attention you want?

Boob jobs are on the rise, marriage is on the decline, and attention span is at a new low.  Slut appeal is like a flash that grabs the eye for a second, but has no staying power.  It's everywhere, easy to find, and easy to replace.

So how do you keep the intrigue for long-term?

A little mystery.  Show something, but not everything at once.  Leave them wanting more.

In fashion, this can be as easy as revealing one sexy body part at a time... cleavage, midriff or legs.  So, if you're wearing skin-tight pants that show off your butt, you don't also need to wear a low-cut belly shirt.  Save that for another day.  Or, if you're wearing a bosom-bearing corset, pair it with a full skirt or pair of jeans.  That way, a little something is left for the imagination, and you'll look sexy not slutty.

I say, if you want to be a slut, go for it!  Bare it all in a tiny mini dress or painted on catsuit!  Just know that people will be judging you, just like they're judging Miley right now, and all that hotness may blind them to your deeper qualities.

Whatever you choose, have fun and be safe!  Where you draw the line is up to you.  You have the power to change people's perception of you just by changing your outfit.  So rock it!

What Color Makes Guys Approach You?

OK single ladies...

Most women are a little shy when it comes to making the first move.  You don't want to be too forward and possibly get rejected, but you do want to start a conversation with that cute guy you noticed.  So, what can you do to make guys come to you?  

I've been doing some research, and I found a simple trick that will get you more male attention. 

Wear pink!

Studies show that men are more likely to talk to a woman wearing pink than any other color.  Maybe because it's the most feminine color of all!  It makes you look soft, sweet, and approachable. 

But what if you don't look good in pink?

There are so many shades to choose from, you're sure to find something to flatter your skin tone!  Rose warms up pale skin tones.  Baby Pink shows off a great tan.  And Fuchsia really pops out against a chocolate complexion.

Spring is a great time to wear pink... and start a summer romance!

Check out these and more sexy styles at www.EverydaySweetheart.com and become a man magnet!

Importing from China

I'm excited to be writing my first blog post!  My name is Johanna, and I'm an online retailer of sexy fashions.  I started my web store, EverydaySweetheart.com, after I visited China in 2012 and was so amazed with their high quality lingerie at cheap prices!

China is a spectacular place!  Many people in the USA don't realize how advanced and efficient China is.  The architecture is monumental... skyscrapers towering 100 stories, which turn into massive LED display screens at night and light up in rotating neon colors.  A huge community of Chinese artists study and work their entire lifetime to become masters of handmade crafts, like silk needlepoint, jade carving, and paper cutting.  The art they create is intricate, precise, and stunning!

This attention to detail translates into the clothing business as well.  When I received my first shipment of wholesale lingerie from a Chinese manufacturer, I couldn't believe how many items they fit into such a small box!  Everything was folded and packed so neatly!  Like a new bedspread, once I took it out of the package, I could never make it fit in there again.  I was pleasantly surprised by the quality of the design and stitching, the speed of delivery, and the variety of fabrics and colors.

Of course, some items are cuter than others, and some manufacturers are more reliable than others.  It took me nearly a year of trial and error to find the best products!  I bought a lot of samples, and some were just not up to par, so I gave them away or sold them cheap on eBay.  But the time and investment paid off.  Now, I have an adorable collection of sexy, top quality styles!

Please visit my web store and see some of the amazing deals I found!  I have a full collection of lingerie, swimwear, and sexy fashions.  I get new shipments all the time, so check back often!

www.EverydaySweetheart.com

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Happy shopping!
Johanna

Here's a photo of me modeling one of my favorite teddies:

http://everydaysweetheart.com/products/990851-black-exotic-floral-lace-diamond-teddy